Now I know the title sounds like one of my previous posts “Wake up and Smell the Roses” but it’s not just a replay, really. Todays title is the actual saying, albeit punctuated differently, and it really has some merit. It is also one of the credos I will try to follow over the next number of months.
I’m still struggling a bit with this retirement thing, the big “R”, and whether it’s early retirement or not the challenge for me is the same. I see so many things I can do, so much I should do, that I overwhelm myself and in the end do very little of either. What I need to do is chill, take a breath and a break, and don’t fuss over jobs that call out to be done, they’ll be there another day. It’s all about the balance isn’t it?
Yesterday was a good example of a day spent in balance. I worked for a short time in the yard, took a walk for my health, cleaned the bathrooms (don’t fall over), and posted to my blog. When all was said and done I felt pretty good. I don’t have any roses I can smell but I do have a lovely Magnolia tree blooming in my backyard. Every year I look forward to seeing it in all it’s majesty, and stopping to gaze at it frequently brings me calm in a busy day.
In trying to bring order to my days I’m still thinking a master “to do” list will be beneficial. I can complete one or two items a day from the list and still feel a sense of accomplishment, while maintaining some personal time and an opportunity to reflect. Exercise will fit into that schedule as well, or it should, and my day will end up being more well rounded.
I was planning on seeing Dad today and that’s one of a number of jobs/tasks that needed to be done. I shouldn’t call it a j0b/task really, because it is after all caring for my father and family time should not fall into that category. Helping him should be done for love and compassion, not out of some sense of “have to”. It was something that had to be done and git it done I did (how”s that for proper English?). Trying to maximize my travelling time I did create a list of things to accomplish while out and I feel pretty successful in getting 90% of them done. I went pretty steady but at this stage in my life I think “steady” is a relative term.
With this post wrapping up I think taking a brisk walk will round out my afternoon nicely. I have our dinner planned, most of my chores have been completed and it’s an opportunity for a little “me” time. Who knows, on my walk I may come across a few of the flowering beauties and truly Stop…..and smell the roses.