I’m very sad today thinking of the loss of Larry, my stepfather, and potential loss of my Dad. Am I doing the right thing by not going down there to Langley to see Dad? I feel like an uncaring son but in reality and couldn’t do much even if I was there. It’s a weekend and all we could really do is visit him and be a moral support for him. It could be good for him but would it be good for me or more stress?